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Who Gets the House in a Divorce in Canada?

Updated September 1, 2026

Your rights to the family home during and after divorce in Canada. Covers exclusive possession, selling, buying out, and the matrimonial home exception.

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For many families, the home is the most important asset and the most emotional one. Understanding the special rules that apply to the matrimonial home will help you make informed decisions.

For most Canadian families, the matrimonial home is the single largest asset. When a marriage or common law relationship ends, questions about who gets to stay in the home, whether it must be sold, and how its value is divided are among the most urgent and emotionally charged issues. The legal treatment of the matrimonial home varies significantly across Canadian provinces, so understanding the rules that apply in your jurisdiction is essential for protecting your interests.

Unlike other assets, the matrimonial home receives special treatment under Canadian family law. In most provinces, even if one spouse owned the home before the marriage, it may still be subject to division upon separation. For a broader look at how all assets are divided, see our property division guide. This special status reflects the recognition that the family home serves a unique purpose: it is where the family lived together, and both spouses and any children have a deep connection to it regardless of whose name is on the title.

How the Matrimonial Home Is Treated by Province

ProvinceKey RulePre-Owned HomeSale Without Consent
OntarioCannot be excluded from equalization under s.4(2) of the Family Law ActFull value included in equalization even if owned before marriageCannot sell without spouse's consent under s.21
British ColumbiaAlways classified as family property under the Family Law ActFull value is family property even if pre-owned, though excluded property rules may apply to pre-relationship valueCourt can restrain sale; both spouses have occupation rights
AlbertaBoth spouses have right to live in the home under the Family Property ActMay be divided as matrimonial property regardless of original ownershipCourt can grant exclusive possession; consent typically required for sale

Ontario: Special Status of the Matrimonial Home

In Ontario, the matrimonial home holds a unique and powerful legal status under the Family Law Act. Section 4(2) of the Act provides that the matrimonial home cannot be excluded from the equalization calculation. This is a critical distinction from all other types of property. Normally, assets that a spouse owned before the marriage can be deducted from their net family property, reducing the amount they owe in equalization. However, this deduction does not apply to the matrimonial home.

What this means in practice is significant. If one spouse owned a home worth $500,000 before the marriage, and the couple lived in it as their matrimonial home, the full value of that home at the date of marriage cannot be deducted from the owning spouse's net family property. The entire value of the home at the date of separation is included in the equalization calculation. This rule applies even if the home was an inheritance or a gift, which would normally be excludable for other types of property.

Under Ontario's Family Law Act, section 4(2), the matrimonial home cannot be excluded from equalization. This means even if you owned the home before marriage, its full value is included in the property division calculation.

Equal Right of Possession

Section 19 of the Ontario Family Law Act gives both spouses an equal right to possession of the matrimonial home, regardless of who holds the title. This means that neither spouse can lock the other out of the home or force them to leave, even if only one spouse's name is on the deed. This right continues until a court order, separation agreement, or divorce changes it.

Restrictions on Sale and Encumbrance

Section 21 of the Family Law Act prevents either spouse from selling, mortgaging, or otherwise encumbering the matrimonial home without the other spouse's written consent. This protection exists even if only one spouse is on the title. The purpose is to prevent one spouse from disposing of the family's most important asset without the other's knowledge or agreement. If a spouse attempts to sell or mortgage the home without consent, the transaction may be set aside by the court.

Exclusive Possession Orders

Under section 24 of the Family Law Act, the court can grant one spouse exclusive possession of the matrimonial home. This means the other spouse must leave and cannot return without permission. The court considers several factors when deciding whether to grant exclusive possession, including the best interests of any children, the financial situation of both spouses, any existing orders or agreements, the availability of other suitable housing, any violence or risk of violence committed by one spouse against the other, and the conduct of the spouses in relation to each other.

Do not leave the matrimonial home without legal advice. Voluntarily moving out may affect your claim for exclusive possession, though it does not affect your property rights.

Common Questions

What happens to the house when we separate?
There are several options: one spouse can buy the other out, the home can be sold and the proceeds divided, or the home can be kept temporarily (often for the children's stability) with a deferred sale. The best option depends on your financial situation, whether children are involved, and what you and your spouse can agree on. No matter what, neither spouse can force the other out without a court order.
Can I change the locks after my spouse moves out?
Generally, no. Both spouses have an equal right to possession of the matrimonial home until a court order or separation agreement says otherwise. Changing the locks could be seen as an attempt to deny possession and may have negative consequences in court proceedings. If you have safety concerns, seek a court order for exclusive possession.
What if the home is in my spouse's name only?
In all three provinces covered here, the matrimonial home receives special legal treatment regardless of whose name is on the title. You still have rights to the home and its value. However, it is important to take steps to protect your interest, such as filing a caveat on the title (in Alberta) or ensuring the home is properly identified in any court proceedings.
Can we agree to give the house to one spouse?
Yes, you can negotiate who keeps the home as part of your separation agreement. The spouse keeping the home typically compensates the other through an equalization payment, by giving up other assets of equivalent value, or by assuming more of the family debt. It is important to have any agreement reviewed by independent lawyers for each spouse.
What about common law couples?
The rules for common law couples vary significantly by province. In BC, couples who have lived together for at least two years generally have the same property rights as married couples. In Ontario and Alberta, common law couples do not have automatic property division rights, though they may have claims based on unjust enrichment or constructive trust. Legal advice specific to your situation is strongly recommended.

If you and your spouse are negotiating what happens with the home, a separation agreement can formalize your arrangement and make it enforceable. If you're looking for a family lawyer to help, browse family lawyers across Canada.

Additional Resources

Ontario Family Law Information

Government of Ontario

BC Family Law Act, Part 5: Property Division

BC Laws

Alberta Family Property Act

Government of Alberta

This information is for general educational purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. Always consult a qualified family lawyer for advice about your specific situation.

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This content is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Laws vary by province and individual circumstances. Consult a qualified family lawyer for advice specific to your situation.